Jeffrey Hall (our guest on AOC podcast #712) about how long it can take to move from acquaintance to true friend. AJ and Johnny refer back to their interview with Dr.It’s the emotion that creates a connection. What are emotional bids and how can we use these to understand others? Emotional bids are humor/play/affection, and they’re used to hook the other person into also sharing emotion.What practical ways can you give more people the ability to connect on an emotional level with you? By showing emotion, mirroring their body language.Think of this: Your next business mentor, romantic interest or long-term friend may be sitting right next to you! And how would you know? These moments may be passing you by in your everyday life?.What’s the best way to instantly connect with a stranger? Trick question: you don’t.Why? How come? How does technology change our assumptions and expectations when interacting with someone new? We hit a button and, BAM, a new best friend. We live in a time when technology gives us instant satisfaction for almost everything: food, transportation, running errands, dating, keeping track of… well, almost everything! It’s easy to expect connections to be created just as instantaneously.Jack Shafer (Ep #712), “The sense of closeness increases if the disclosures are emotional rather than factual.” AJ and Johnny explain the power of the invite, creating an emotional connection and ultimately helping us all understand the kind of person we’re interested in. In their quest to reach the perfect balance, they talk about how vital opening up the door of introduction is without prying into someone’s life or personal space. In this episode, AJ and Johnny share stories of how they’ve built connections with others and improved upon them - then explore them from a scientific perspective. (Download Episode Here) ABOUT THE EPISODE
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